It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w9TGj2jrJk8 

“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”